Welcome to the Choose Him Online Story Creator™!
You are about to embark on an exciting and empowering journey to discover the real YOU and what you truly want in a man and your relationship together.
You can finally create a clear vision (once and for all) in the form of your own authentic love story. After all, how can you know what you really want if you haven’t explored your true dreams? The template is automated, but it is a uniquely personalized process for each woman who uses it.
The engaging illustrated Story Creator is designed to take you through 10 aspects of how you envision your life and your relationship with your Dream Man:
Your finished story will reveal the kind of man and life you’ve only dared to dream about. Let’s get started creating your own romantic and heartfelt love story.
Welcome to the Story Creator, please sign in below in order to access the Story Creator and receive your finished story by email.
I wish you well on this exciting and life-altering journey!
Remember, the FREE Story Creator will be available until November 7, 2010 and then it will return to the regular price. And, I encourage you to fill out the 5-minute Survey about your experience with the Story Creator!
Thank you,
Deb Garraway
But if you feel ready to go, take a deep breath and start to feel the possibilities of creating the vision, the man, the partnership, and the life you’ve always dreamed of.
Your Dream Man is in the Details: You’re about to fill in your choices in the Story Creator template that will form the basis for your Dream Man story. The topics and sample statements are designed to trigger your own feelings and values related to the many aspects of your ideal man and relationship. They are not intended to limit you to the options listed. The template is meant to be edited to your own style and language so that it resonates with your deepest feelings.
Ignite the Attraction Factor: While the difference is in the details, be sure to focus on the things that are most important to you and don't elaborate more than necessary. If your story is too long, it can be overwhelming and hard to integrate the attraction factor. Ideally, you will edit and streamline your story afterward as you become clearer about what you want.
A Note from Deb: Because this process is intended to be a catalyst for your own unique story rather than a comprehensive list of all possibilities, any omission of circumstances, perspectives, or cultural considerations is completely unintentional. I honor and respect the full spectrum of diversity that makes each woman her own special, unique individual.
Remember:
Express Your Truth: If you’re still romantically attached or hung up on someone, it’s common to orchestrate your story around that man’s qualities rather than what you truly want. You won’t get the truest version of your story if you’re in a compromising frame of mind or are afraid to ask for what you really desire. Set yourself up for success by telling the truth about what you really want!
See Your Progress: As you work on each section, you’ll also be able to see your progress toward completing each of the 10 parts by looking at the blue bar at the top of each page.
Set the Law of Attraction in Motion: When you’re done inputting your responses, you’ll have created the story of your Dream Man and your dream life with him. This will represent exactly what you want and set the law of attraction in motion. And what could be better than that?
For more information on the Law of Attraction, tips on managing your personal power, and navigating the dating world, I recommend the Choose Him book.
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We start with the physical aspect not because it’s the most important aspect, but because it’s often how we begin a dream. Creating an image of what your Dream Man might look like allows you to envision other aspects of your life together, too. So let’s get clear about how your Dream Man inspires your senses. When you think of the physical aspects of your Dream Man, think of all of the details of his appearance, scent, style, and how he takes care of himself—what lights your fire? You’ll also be prompted to think about how he feels about you physically, as well as how he makes you feel when you’re together. Do you want to snuggle up to him or do you want to just admire his physique? Do you want to smell the scent of his neck, play with his hair, or feel his muscles? Your Dream Man’s physical body is the body you want to spend time with, adore, and love touching.
Complete the following statements to the degree that he comes alive in your mind, so you can really feel his physical presence next to yours. Remember, you have total creative license to craft your own ideas.
Be sure to fill in all the blue text boxes and complete each page before moving to the next page.
Text boxes allow up to 200 characters.
My Dream Man is between and years old since...
...and he is about feet inches tall, which matters to me because...
I get butterflies when I look at his (handsome face, perfect teeth, smile, gorgeous eyes, full lips, big hands, muscular legs, strong arms, hairy chest, tush, etc.) and his physique (slim, muscular, stocky, medium build, teddy bear like, lean and athletic, chubby in the tummy, etc.).
I love his hair; (short, medium, long, thick, slightly balding, brown, black, sandy, red, blonde, salt & pepper, silver) it makes him look (sophisticated, contemporary, intelligent, natural, wild, artistic, youthful, striking, gorgeous, exotic, manly, etc.).
He has a (clean-shaven face, sexy mustache, beard, goatee, etc.) and I love how his face feels against mine when we kiss.
When I hear my man’s voice it sounds so (smooth, melodious, deep, smoky, soothing, sexy, strong, commanding, etc.) and when he whispers in my ear I (just melt, feel calm, feel loved, feel comfortable, feel excited, tingle all over, etc.).
I’m appreciative that he is (carefree, casual, conscientious, meticulous, etc.) about his hair, face, and nails.
When I lay my head on his chest, I’m intoxicated by his scent (outdoorsy, beachy, clean, natural, masculine, sexy, musky, etc.).
What I love about the way he dresses is his...
My Dream Man’s overall style is (steamy sexy, Ivy League, stylish, sophisticated, polished, casual, sporty, rugged, cowboy-like, artistic and carefree, athletic, urban edgy, metrosexual, classic, traditional, etc.), which is for me (a turn-on, inspiring, comfortable, etc.).
He likes it when I dress and he also likes to see me...
What he admires about me is my style (sexy, urban chic, eclectic, trendsetting, fashionable, sophisticated, elegant, classy, delicate and ultra-feminine, natural, cowgirl-like, athletic, tomboyish, etc.).
Reach deep into your heart and ask for what you want, not what you may think is possible!
The inner aspects of your Dream Man—his values, beliefs, and life experiences—make up who he is and how he lives in the world. His essence is what drives him when he makes decisions, runs his affairs, and builds his relationships. His essence is what you respect when you get to know who he really is inside, what motivates him, and what he cares about most deeply. This is a core part of your Dream Man story. What kind of man do you want to live and play with, respect, admire, adore, and love?
I fell in love with my Dream Man because his highest values are (honesty, integrity, loyalty, responsibility, generosity, compassion, trust, collaboration, enthusiasm, kindness, playfulness, security, adventurousness, commitment, learning, openness, sharing, supportiveness, tolerance, forgiveness, etc.).
One of his deepest beliefs is that
... which means a lot to me because (your own answer) ...
It’s also great that we...
...because I like to (have amicable discussions about current affairs, be on the same page about issues, lightly debate our perspectives, debate our perspectives, talk about more meaningful topics, etc.).
He’s so inspiring to me with his willingness to...
I truly value that he...
... and he always (supports my dreams, speaks positively about me to others, treats me with the greatest respect, etc.).
It also touches me that he is...
One of the things that excites me about him is...
...which (impresses, intrigues, inspires, amazes, impacts, etc.) me because (your own answer)...
When he’s out in the world, he is...
...which makes me feel (your own answer)...
I love his (quick, witty, inquisitive, analytical, creative, well-read, intelligent, rational, insightful, etc.) mind because he...
His sense of humor...
Every time I hear his (joyful, jubilant, exuberant, jovial, infectious, spirited, belly, heartfelt, hardy, animated, cheerful, etc.) laugh, it brings a smile to my face.
I’m proud that my man is incredibly (conscious, creative, open-minded, sensitive, powerful, non-judgmental, spontaneous, comfortable in his own skin, kind, private, respectful, unselfish, loyal, honorable, generous, etc.).
When I look across the room, I say, “That’s my man and...
When I sit back and watch him, I truly appreciate his...
(happy go-lucky, playful, adventurous, artistic, down-to-earth, charismatic, warm-hearted, grounded, secure, sensitive, caring, genuine, confident, quiet, contemplative, etc.) way of being. He’s just (amazing, a wonderful man, a great guy, so sexy, such a real man, etc.).
What I love about him is his...
......which is important to me because (your own answer)...
This is a good place to take a breather. It takes some time and thought to focus on what you really want.
Beyond his essence is his natural way of being in the world. What type of person is he? What’s he like when he goes out socially? What is his daily rhythm? What kind of food does he like? What’s he really good at? In this section, explore who he is and what you love about him. In the end, you will have a clear idea of what type of Dream Man you want to find.
We spend a lot of our time...
He happens to be a really great (dancer, artist, athlete, singer, sailor, skier, musician, poet, outdoors man, handyman, etc.), too, and he
He loves (sex, making love, golf, sports, reading, art, music, movies, plays, outdoor activities, etc.) as much as I do.
We even share the same feelings about animals and (he loves dogs, he loves cats, he loves all animals, we agree not to have animals, etc.), which matters to me because (your own answer)...
We are compatible in our daily routine since he is (a night owl, a morning person, a mid-day person, adaptable etc.) like me, and he...
It’s natural for him to be...
During his own time with others, he enjoys...
He cherishes his solo time (relaxing, reading, watching TV, playing an instrument, listening to music, spending time outdoors, playing a solo sport, tinkering with his hobbies, working out, etc.) and when he’s not doing his own thing, I appreciate that he (checks to see what I want to do, enjoys doing something to make me happy, gives me the same space whenever I need it).
This template is meant to be a catalyst for your own thoughts and feelings. Feel free to create your own answers.
I’m pleased that he...
...and he also
At home, my man likes to...
...since (your own answer)
When we go out to eat, he (orders for me, lets me order for myself, orders the wine for us, lets me order the wine, etc.).
I appreciate his table manners, as they are (impeccable, polite, traditional, proper, elegant, not fussy, common sense, etc.) and he...
When he goes out socially, he and...
...which is important to me because (your own answer) ...
He is the kind of man who...
All of the lovey-dovey stuff is wonderful, but when some of the fairy dust dissipates, you’re left with the details of life: work, finances, and schedules. What is your ideal life with your Dream Man? Make it work for you.
My Dream Man is (an entrepreneur, a professional, a business man, an educator, in the creative arts, in the healing arts, in public life, retired, etc.), and he...
His pursuits allow him...
I admire that he...
His coworkers and colleagues respect that he is (a solid man, reliable, a great guy, responsible, a leader, a visionary, inspirational, creative, talented, gifted, dedicated to helping others, intelligent and successful, a global and dynamic thinker, dedicated to making a difference in the world, etc.).
I truly appreciate that he...
I'm grateful that he...
Our financial arrangement is harmonious since...
He is...
Next, put your attention on you, because you deserve to have everything you want.
The man of your dreams is the man who makes you feel your absolute best. He’s the man who treats you as you want to be treated—he is a reflection of you in many ways. You become more of who you are when you’re with him, and he allows you to live out your true potential.
My man finds me irresistible in that...
What my guy loves about me is my...
He is thoughtful in supporting me in my alone time when I want to
(relax, read, write, explore the internet, watch movies, play an instrument, listen to music, talk on the phone, create art, tinker in my hobbies, work out at the gym, lounge by the pool, dig in the garden, etc.)
He appreciates that my spirit is (optimistic, upbeat, enthusiastic, playful, adventurous, mischievous, open, laid-back, peaceful, mellow, reserved, etc.) and
He’s proud that I am very (conscious, confident, creative, open-minded, powerful, non-judgmental, kind, generous, spontaneous, comfortable in my own skin, respectful, unselfish, loyal, honorable, classy, etc.).
When he speaks about me to others he says that...
...which makes me feel (honored, adored, cherished, respected, admired, unconditionally loved, free to be who I am, that he has my highest good in mind, held on a pedestal, etc.).
When the two of you are alone, what is it that you want to experience most with him? Intimacy includes everything from talking and touching to sex. It’s the experience you have with him and with yourself that brings you closer together, allows you to be vulnerable, and cements your relationship connection. When you’re out in public, how do you want him to treat you?
My guy encourages me to pursue my dreams by (sharing his ideas, giving me thoughtful feedback, helping me with planning, cheering me on, participating in them, always being positive, etc.).
It’s natural for him to...
He shows his romantic side by...
He’s the kind of man who would...
...and that makes me (your own answer)
When I walk through the door, he makes me feel (missed, adored, beautiful, sexy, smart, cherished, important in his life, etc.).
In our quiet time together, I know he feels (fulfilled, proud, appreciated, valued, manly, loved, admired, like my hero, grateful, confident, supported, etc.) and he always says...
I know for sure that he makes me feel (desirable, special, protected, safe and cared for, I can really trust him, beautiful, unconditionally loved, cherished, as if anything is possible, etc.).
It gives him blissful pleasure to...
...and out in public he...
He delights in my body and sees me as (a goddess, a seductress, a beloved lover, sensual and feminine, sexy and voluptuous, etc.) ...and he is (a super hot kisser, gentle, sensitive, attuned to my needs, romantic and tender, a fantastic lover, sensual and sizzling, etc.).
Physically, what turns him on about me are my , and (eyes, lips, smile, legs, fit body, curvaceous body, voluptuous body, petite body, statuesque body, etc.) and most important he loves and accepts me as I am.
What really worked for me when we first met is that:
When it comes to making love, we (love to linger in bed, have amazing chemistry, are adventurous and experimental, make it a high/low priority, are passionate and romantic, spontaneous, have lots of foreplay, prefer to just cuddle, can take it or leave it. etc.) and we are completely compatible.
Imagine the type of communication and care you’d like to have with your Dream Man. Does he like to talk with you into the wee hours of the night? Does he like to listen to your dreams? Does he disagree with you with kind words? Does he take care of you when you’re down?
My Dream Man is (caring, thoughtful, considerate, supportive, emotionally available, open-hearted, willing to connect, a great communicator, engaging, etc.).
When we talk together, his natural way of communicating is...
In his style of engaging with me, he...
We like to talk about (business ideas, setting life goals, spiritual growth, current events, politics, travel, vacation plans, our kids’ lives and family activities, entertaining, movies, home improvement, the meaning of life, our relationship and how we can grow, etc.) and that makes me feel (like we’re truly connected, like we’re true partners, that we’re on the same wavelength, that we’re on the same path, that he respects my opinion, etc.).
As a listener, he...
When we have a disagreement, we...
At times when I’m angry with him, he...
And when I’m down in the dumps...
...and I really love him for this.
If I...
...he...
Now he's beginning to feel real and like a part of your life.
Everything and everyone around you makes your relationship complete. Your lifestyle includes your home, family, children, friends, and what you do for fun and leisure. What kind of full and complete life do you want to live with your mate? Do you want kids? Do you want to travel? Do you want a home where you can entertain family and friends? Your lifestyle is the life you create with the outside world, too. What’s yours?
When it comes to material things, what’s important to me is that he prefers...
When I met my Dream Man, he...
Our living situation suits us perfectly, since we...
...and we live (in the city, in the country, in the suburbs, at the beach, on a ranch, in the mountains, on a boat, in an RV, etc.).
Our primary home is our place...
Our interior design and living styles are...
We are well matched in our home care talents, since...
We...
...which contributes to our sense of... (enriching our life, connection, independence, autonomy, freedom, being social, diversity, worldliness, variety, etc.).
He...
and...
We believe...
The man of my dreams and I enjoy...
When we travel, we enjoy...
My favorite activities while traveling with my man are...
Traveling with my Dream Man is delightful because he...
In looking ahead to our later years, the kind of retirement we envision is...
Inside of your heart is a spiritual desire. What kind of man matches that desire? What sort of actions in the world demonstrate who he is deep in his heart? No matter what your spiritual preferences are, do you want a man who journeys on the same path with you, or one who brings a different perspective? The choice is yours.
My Dream Man...
This pleases me because I (share the same beliefs, look forward to sharing our faith, believe this is important to the core of our relationship, want us to grow spiritually together, am not connected to any spiritual beliefs, etc.).
He believes...
Our spiritual lifestyle encompasses...
So far, you’ve created a vision for quite an amazing Dream Man, but you’re not done yet. This might be a good time to make another cup of tea or get up and stretch. You want to feel totally content during this part. The last aspect of your Dream Man is the essence, true feelings, and experiences you have with this perfect partner. What is your relationship like? What is your relationship like as it grows? What is the ultimate fulfillment of your union with this man? Dream big, as you are about to see him come into your life.
Our relationship is enlivening because we...
The most important words to describe the essence of our day-to-day life are , , and (laughter, harmony, contentment, passion, excitement, support, respect, connection, affection, stimulating, spiritual, sharing, satisfaction, peace, joy, love, attentiveness, etc.).
Our relationship is (committed, monogamous, faithful, open to alternative partners, etc.) and the ultimate fulfillment of our love affair is that we are...
And we are living...
CONGRATULATIONS! The thrilling part is still to come after you’ve written out your full story and read it, which begins to change your magnetic resonance and ignites the Law of Attraction.
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CONGRATULATIONS! You are now ready to take the final step to complete your story. The thrilling part is still to come after you’ve read your full story. You’ll experience a sense of hope, optimism, even exhilaration as the Law of Attraction is ignited. But more important, you’ll have empowering knowledge, clarity, and a stronger sense of your true self. Now you’re ready to attract your Dream Man into your life.
With your story in hand, you can fine-tune it to further reflect the things that matter most to you. Deb advises that you read your story daily for a couple of weeks to fully embrace and embody the feelings you want to have in your relationship. That’s the real secret to attracting what you want! Your feelings are the attraction factor.
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